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NATIONAL EMERGENCY HOTLINE

REPORT RAPE
1-800-799-SAFE

PLEASE HELP

PLEASE HELP

When life is full of confussion

When life is full of confussion
Despair & helplessness sit in, what do you do?

Please Read

Although there are many items written here they are in succession please go through the total list to read certain helps for abuse.
There will be many stories posted by myself and other's but the coersion chart and other important posts will keep buried, therefore needing to be sook out.
I pray this helps all abuse victims and relatives of some realise you are not alone nor the reason for it.

When we feel alone & violated

When we feel alone & violated
what should we do?

In Moments of deep thought

In Moments of deep thought
where do we go?

With all humility and humbleness

With all humility and humbleness
we are at His feet..

Friday, August 17, 2007

Checklist of Behaviors





Do you or have you
Yes
No

Bossed your partner around



Pouted or denied affection (i.e., silent treatment) to your partner



Checked up on them (listened to phone calls, called them often at work, followed them)



Stormed out in the middle of an argument



Insulted your partner



Often interrupted partner while talking



Accused your partner of flirting or cheating on you



Acted jealous or suspicious of your partner’s friends



Blamed your partner for your problems



Made negative comments on how your partner dresses



Made negative comments about your partner’s body



Kept or attempted to keep your partner from leaving



Yelled or screamed at your partner



Treated your partner like a personal servant



Spit at, or pulled your partner’s hair



Slapped your partner



Made it difficult for your partner to socialize with friends



Told your partner she/he was crazy



Pushed, grabbed, shoved or threw your partner



Hit your partner with something



Pulled or tore off your partner’s clothes



Drove fast to scare your partner



Threw, hit or destroyed property



Bit or scratched your partner



Forced your partner to do something she or he didn’t want to do



Punched your partner with your fist



Kicked your partner



Choked or strangled your partner



Used or threatened your partner with a weapon



Physically forced your partner to have sex



Begged partner for sex and wouldn’t stop until partner agreed



Physically harmed pets



Threatened to hit your partner or throw something at him or her



Said things to scare him or her (something “bad” would happen, threatened to commit suicide)



Anything that hasn’t been mentioned

1 comment:

James Lindquist said...

Good blog Sugar. It is a problem that makes me sick and is pretty well hidden from society. You usually don't hear about abuse until someone has died from it. It is sad. I was brought up to respect the woman and that comes from parents that respected each other and taught us the same. Again, good job and good subject.